How do I deal with a mean professor who doesn't let any vacations?

2021.09.27 06:41 hotashami How do I deal with a mean professor who doesn't let any vacations?

I started my Ph.D. in a US university recently. I joined my lab in July. The supervisor was good for the first few weeks but then he asked me to work on a project which is kind of stuck for a couple of years. I like to take on challenges so I thought it will be enjoyable. But later I found out another Ph.D. student (say his name is Alpha) has been working on the same project for the last couple of hours but he cannot replicate the data published by the previous student (say his name is Yankee). I reviewed what Alpha has been doing, I tried to replicate the paper, did some modifications but still no good results. I really don't find any explanation why it's not working. I did a similar type of work before so I am familiar with it.
The problem is my supervisor thinks we (Alpha and I) are doing something wrong. He is not ready to realize the previous student could make mistakes. What makes things worse is another post-doc. She (say her name is Bravo) also tried to help us and got limited success a few times (less than 30% times). The funny thing is Bravo never reports the failed experiments. So the supervisor thinks I am doing it wrong. An interesting fact is, the professor, Yankee, and Bravo - all are from a certain country. Alpha and I are from different countries. I don't want to mean anything racist but sometimes I feel the supervisor doesn't trust us because we are not of his race (the professor is neither American nor white). He wants to see his expected result in the experiments even if the methods are not exactly correct. He is happy even with a questionable method circumventing a well-established method if the results are similar to Yankee's data.
The supervisor showed his worst face a few days ago. My country is thousands of miles away from the USA and my first child was born a few weeks ago. When I asked for a vacation of 3 weeks in the winter, he refused directly. All his logic was I don't have enough data. I requested him that I am only going because I want to see my child. But it looks like the supervisor has no emotion. All he was saying was I don't have enough data so I should work more in the winter. He said I can only go during the Christmas break of 7 days.
I told him it takes 4 days to commute from the USA to my home town, the ticket prices are skyrocketed during that time. But all he said is "this is not my problem, you will still have 3 days to see your child." He was also suggesting that my wife should resign from her job and come to the USA. I was surprised how dare was he commenting on someone's personal life!
I understand I should have data to progress. But it's hard to get meaningful data when you have to replicate some old work that is questionable. And it has been only a few months, how am I supposed to show promising data on something when another student is stuck there for more than two years! I am trying to find out the problem but he is not ready to accept that the previous work could have some wrong methods/analysis.
My family and friends often tell me that I can hold my emotion but it was such a moment that I almost cried in front of him. I had a class right after and my eyes were all wet, I tried to hide them from others. It has been several days but I am finding it really hard to concentrate on work and study. I am feeling too much depressed, never felt this bad in my life! I am really in a bad position.
I am pretty early in my Ph.D. carrier. Should I change my supervisoschool? It will be another extremely difficult thing for me to do but if this continues for the next few years, I am really concerned about how I would manage.
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The applications seem to say that this family/dependents status will not affect the applications, but is this really true in reality? I can't help thinking there could be some bias existing around it (such as, the hassle of having to do visa documents for two individuals rather than just one).
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The post was talking about how I had been using an item for my entire life, so including my age (aka the length of my life) seemed relevant. I got some snarky backhanded comment saying: β€œWhat does your gender have to do with anything? Upvote me cause I’m a wamen [sic]”
Why do some men have to act like Reddit is made specifically for them to use and if we β€œwamen” want to use it we must only use it in secret under the guise of being male or genderless. This person just assumed I stated my gender for some sort of clout and was deeply offended by it.
This is thankfully not the norm and I only encounter it from time to time which I’m grateful for. It’s likely, however, that the men on this site experience these kinds of comments far less often than us if ever and it’s just frustrating.
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Hello, I'm a senior in High School who just began to volunteer for CryptoForTheHomeless and I'm trying to help in any way I can. We're currently looking for people to hand food out and allow more food to be given out to the homeless.
We have currently spent no money on advertising and/or overhead so we're relying on organic growth to reach more people willing to volunteer.
Requirements:
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